When online dating was introduced to us, it brought the hopeful promise of making love easier to find. But as so many apps and years of swiping have shown, it’s far from perfect.
Having access to an endless menu of potential matches doesn’t mean they’ll choose you back. And even if they do, there’s always the risk of ruining it with a bold (read: cringe) message.
Still, those embarrassing exchanges often make for great entertainment. So, we’ve rounded up some of the funniest and most awkward Tinder conversations people have shared with the internet. Scroll down to enjoy them, and don’t forget to upvote your favorites!
#1 Great Chat
#2 We’ve Come Full Circle
The modern love scene leaves much to be desired. Nearly half of those actively dating believe it’s harder now than it was a decade ago. Men say they’re lonelier than ever. Women, on the other hand, are happier staying single.
There’s no single answer to why this is happening. But for many who haven’t given up on the dream of finding “the one,” the struggle often points to dating apps.
A 2022 study revealed that four in five U.S. adults feel emotionally drained from using them. Plenty seem to be walking away, too—a recent survey from Ofcom found that user numbers on platforms like Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble have dropped for the first time.
#3 Unmatched In Less Than 12 Parsecs
#4 Honestly Smooth
Don’t get me wrong—I’m not an avid hater of dating apps. I know that Tinder, along with the countless platforms it inspired, has brought together people who might never have crossed paths otherwise. In fact, a 2023 study shows that one in 10 people in committed relationships met their partner online. Even among my friends, many found their soulmates thanks to the internet, with some even having tied the knot.
That said, I also have plenty of screenshots buried in the depths of group chats—disastrous conversations they endured on dating apps before finally stumbling upon their happily-ever-after.
#5 Hehehe
#6 Keep Trying
#7 Convo Got A Little Dry (Not Me)
Love, dating, and relationship coach Vicki Pavitt agrees. “Dating apps can open up more opportunities to meet people, but dating fatigue and burnout are common,” she told We. “The sheer volume of options can lead to ‘decision fatigue’ and the paradox of choice, making commitment harder. This has also given rise to trends like ghosting, orbiting, and breadcrumbing.”
#8 Thought Y’all Would Get A Kick Out Of This
#9 It Worked
#10 I Was Swiftly Unmatched, Obviously Wasn’t The One
Dating and relationship coach Emma Lorraine Pask adds that this overwhelming element of choice, combined with the technical interface of dating apps, often makes the experience feel impersonal. “This creates a sense that people are disposable, which at its worst encourages bad manners and poor behavior online,” she shared with We.
#11 This Conversation Was Brought To You By Nostrildamus
#12 Apply Cold Water
#13 Thought I Was Being Funny Here
#14 Unreal
#15 She Ghosted Me And Sent Me This 10 Days Later
#16 She Knew The Vending Machine Line So I Had To Improvise
#17 This Is What I Use Tinder For
#18 Savage
#19 Match Their Energy *update* She Responded
#20 I Just Had To Vent
#21 Sense Of Humor Is Important
#22 I Just Don’t Know What People Want Anymore
#23 How Hopeless Am I?
#24 How To Be A Strong Negotiator
#25 Okay It Was Slick But… *stares In January Birthday*
#26 Vegan?
#27 Finally
#28 Welp, Guess He’s Not Interested? No Response. Damn, I Thought I Was Funny
#29 Fellas Did I Fumble?
#30 I Did Not Get A Response
#31 He Unmatched
#32 Can’t Understand Why She Isn’t Responding?
#33 Tinder Has Taught Me To Lower My Standards
#34 How Do I Reply? I Suck At Starting Convos But I Can Carry One Easy
#35 Any Bets On How Many Ha’s I Can Get?
Joker is that you?
#36 I Matched With A Cat And I Think Our Convo Is Going Well So Far
#37 So This Is The Worst So Far. Los Angeles Is Impossible. 39 Year Old Guy Has No Chance
#38 Woof
#39 So This Just Happened
#40 Greasy Warning Before The First Date
#41 Her Bio Said She Wanted A Personal Court Jester, Had To Act Accordingly
#42 I Like To Think I’m Funny But Maybe Not
#43 I Really Liked This Opener Lmao
#44 In 2019, I Matched With A Guy Who Worked As A Cook At Roosters
#45 If Tinder Would Have An Option To Review After Date With Star Ratings
#46 Probably The Best Opening Message I’ve Ever Gotten
#47 I Can Never Get A Date
#48 99% Success Rate
#49 Can’t Decide If This Convo Is A Win Or Not
#50 References Don’t Always Pay Off
#51 It’s Easier In College
#52 Well That Was Mean
#53 He Did Not Laugh He Unmatched
#54 Classic Tinder
#55 This Is How My Messages Would Look If I Got The Delete And Send Button Mixed Up
#56 I Was Cracking Up Typing The Last Line
#57 Class Got Me Messed Up Man
My conversation game is 1/100.
#58 Okay, Time For Me To Log Off
#59 I Don’t Think I’m Doing This Flirting Thing Right
#60 Exactly Why Men Ain’t It
#61 I’m Not Ready To Be A Father
#62 I Finally Got My First Red Flag!
#63 She’s A Financial Analyst. Is This No Good?
#64 How Does Anyone Expect To Have A Conversation Like This?
#65 Locked And Loaded??
I am a bigger girl so when he said “stacked” I honestly assumed he was going to mention me being “thick” or “curvy”. Nothing could’ve prepared me for that.
#66 Definitely The Best Start To A Convo I’ve Ever Had
#67 Am I Doing It Right
#68 I Couldn’t Beat Her Best Ones
#69 My Second Controller Awaits
#70 How Do You Even Respond
#71 I Used All My Brain Power For The Pick-Up Line Now How Do I Follow Up
#72 This One Made Me Laugh
#73 And There It Is
#74 How It Started
#75 Bro Went All In
#76 I’m [32m] Never Giving My Number To A Tinder Match Again
#77 Second Time’s The Charm…or Maybe Not
#78 Thought This Was A Joke At First
#79 For The Eco-Conscious
#80 Indeed